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Father's plea over Gemma

Published: February 12, 2009

Collum Thoms, father of Perth teenager Gemma Thoms, who died of an ecstasy overdose at a Big Day Out concert, asked young mourners at her funeral yesterday to "think of the pain they could cause their parents."

The ABC reports the 17 year old apprentice hairdresser collapsed at the Big Day Out concert at Perth's Claremont Showground on February 1 after swallowing up to three ecstasy tablets she feared would be discovered by authorities. She died about 12 hours later.

In a eulogy at his daughter's funeral yesterday at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church in Perth, Callum Thoms, of Melbourne, spoke of his pain that Gemma had not been able to meet her baby sister.

He appealed to her friends to learn from her death.

"To Gemma's friends, of which she had so many, I ask you please, if you are ever in a situation or you are faced with the decision my beautiful girl was facing, please be aware of the pain your parents could go through.

"We love you and you will never be forgotten; we will meet again - I love you; Daddy."

In a eulogy read by Gemma's aunts, her mother Peta said her perfect child had grown into an amazing woman who lived life to the full while challenging her and loving her all at once.

"Words can't describe how much I miss you and love you ... you touched the lives of so many people and they will have you in their hearts forever."

Lesmurdie priest Fr Jamie Calder told the gathering: "We think of hope and hope this will never happen again."

Many of the young mourners were wearing blue, which Thoms had said was her favourite colour, The Age says.

Six male pallbearers carried a white coffin covered with white lilies and bearing a portrait photograph of Thoms.

As friends arrived they signed two blank canvasses with messages of love and friendship.

SOURCE

Ecstasy death a 'painful lesson' (The Age)

Father's plea: Learn from BDO drug death (ABC News)

 

 

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  1. It is sad to see such young life wasted, but in the same time makes me angry that is some much blame put on police.
    When are we going to admit that drugs are bad and it should not be taken at all, are we going to ask ourselves: have we done our best as parents, or do we just let it flow like most people in today’s society and say: they need to have fun they’ll grow out of it. Let’s wake up and teach our kids what is wrong and what is right, because we losing the battle or most people do and surroundings of today’s society is not making it ezy.
    Discipline is not always ezy but if you stick to it its worth it REALLY WORTH IT and your kids will be grateful for it.
    God Bless

  2. I don't think that there's greater pain than to lose a child. My heart goes out to that family.

    I understand what the Dad meant in telling the young people to think of the pain that would be caused to their parents, if they put themselves 'at risk' re drugs. I hope his words stay with them....& other young people.

    But much is known about what factors in their lives will put young people 'at risk' for drug taking.....& what factors will act as protectors from their doing so.

    One which will go towards protecting them, is for parents to teach children self-control from an early age. 'Stop & think' should get ingrained in children as they grow.

    Also quality drug & alcohol programs in schools also can act as a 'protector'. The emphasis being on 'quality'.

    May Gemma's death not be in vain in that it helps ratchet up better ways of helping young people avoid the risks of drug- taking. That would bring some comfort to her Mum & Dad & family.

  3. There is no place for a eulogy at a Catholic funeral. We pray for the salvation of her soul.
    When I die, I certainly hope that nobody at my funeral says that I was "perfect" and so deters anyone from praying for me - I'll need as many prayers as I can get.

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