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Stable families best defence against violence: Hickey

Published: March 23, 2009

Stable families and committed fathers are society's best defence against crime and violence, and a great many other ills as well, Perth Archbishop Barry Hickey, says. 

"Tougher laws and more prison sentences might have their place, but if we want to understand why our society has become so violent we must look at the state of marriage and family," Archbishop Hickey said in a statement.

"In 1993, when there was great concern about crime, Dr Alan Tapper, of Edith Cowan University, published the facts and figures to support his statement, 'family breakdown in the form of divorce and separation is the main cause of the crime wave'.

"Dr Tapper's conclusion has been endorsed by history and by countless other studies of the effect of family breakdown over the last 50 years.

Archbishop Hickey also said the modern fashion for cohabitation instead of marriage did not help the adults or the children involved.

Citing a study showing that "the relationship between cohabitation and delinquency is beyond contention," Archbishop Hickey said that "the simple fact is that marriage is the best and safest place for adults and by far the best environment for raising children to be stable and competent adults who are able to contribute to society."

"Parents have a unique relationship with one another and with their children. It is rightly said of married couples that the two become one. It is also true that while children have relationships with each parent, they have that relationship within their parents' unity.

"That is why divorce is so damaging to the well being of children and hence to the well being of society.

"The second reason is that divorce too often results in the absence of the father from the family. This seriously impairs the ability of many children to grow into their own social relationships and ultimately their own successful marriages.

"A father's love for his wife, the mother of his children, is fundamental to his children growing up with the secure knowledge that they, too, are lovable.

"It is vital that the education of boys and young men should lead them to understand the importance of fidelity to their essential role in marriage and family.

"Both young men and young women should be warned that cohabitation seriously affects their ability to establish lasting marriages.

"It is time for all of us - individuals, families and social institutions - to acknowledge the harm that has been done by our casual disregard for the importance of lifelong marriages.

"Instead of blame for what has occurred, there is a real need for all of us to accept responsibility for upholding the importance of marriage - by example, by teaching and by encouragement and support for those who are married or are planning marriage.

"People naturally enter marriage with a desire for permanence.

"Therefore, we all have a responsibility to current and future generations to counter the misleading material published in books, magazines, films and television.

"Marriage is the only way to establish stable families in a stable society."

SOURCE

Stable families, best defence against violence (Perth Archdiocese, Media Release)

 

 

 

 

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  1. Thank you Your Grace for your strong clear words (as usual) of wisdom. Indeed it is the family which holds together life, and it is the breakup of family which has escalated the confusion of the young.
    I would also suggest that this breakdown of family began in earnest with the introduction of the contraceptive "Pill" (no to children) and the rejection of Humane Vitae, which led to rampant and dishonoured sexuality at earlier and earlier ages, and followed by freely available abortion.
    The wounds of abortion taken into a marriage also contribute to its destruction. An abortion experience/s (by either the man or woman) brings to the marriage `a sense of guilt , a sense of unexplained pain, and an unexplained yearning and seeking, and these contribute to the destabilising of this sacred bond.
    The family structure designed by God is deeply wounded when an abortion experience is present. When a mother or father has taken one or more of his/her children to die. This is an aberration. This because it is unthinkable that a parent would take a child to die. (Isaiah 49).
    That marriages appear to fail more readily today is clear, but then again with 100,000 abortions per year (Aust) a marriage very often begins with setback (abortion).
    Of course God is always ready to forgive and heal and strengthen but these must be sought, so that what underpins a new marriage is not a past painful, wrong decision, sin, but the grace of being loved and forgiven, so that when crises come, (as they do) the family can weather them without fear that it is a punishment from God for a mistake made in the past. The mother and father as forgiven children of God can father and mother their own children in the same way as God has fathered them, with love.

  2. Commitment, fidelity and a true honouring of the dignity of one another at every level, together with a sense of responsibility to the wider community are certainly fundamental to the growth of young people.
    Sadly they are not always found in marriage. Happily they are sometimes found outside it, including in the families led by sole parents who grieve to read articles such as this.

  3. To say, quote, "marriage is the ONLY way to establish stable families in a stable society", end of quote, is not a helpful position to adopt, in my opinion.
    We know of the number of breakdowns that occur in marriages so let us continue to seek the answers to why this is so and how we may assist those that do breakdown , rather than say marriage is the ONLY way.
    Are there any people, "out there" who are NOT married but have a stable family?

  4. The archbishop is right. I believe that it is the devil's
    plan to destroy the church by destroying the family
    and the priesthood. He's done a lot of harm but the Lord will finally interfere because it is His church.
    Manuel Adami

  5. Cana (I guess your name is ironic), how can you possibly find anything wrong about stating the simple and obvious fact that marriage is the ONLY way to establish stable families in a stable society?
    Stating this truism certainly doesn’t imply that we shouldn’t do whatever we can to help people whose families have been made unstable by the death or desertion of the father or mother! Amicable relationships between husbands and wives may break down, but a marriage by definition can never break down.

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