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Abbott's comments confirm women's worst fears: Gillard

Published: January 27, 2010

Deputy Prime Minister Julia Gillard

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Tony Abbott said he wasn't intending to offer sexual counselling to the nation by asking men not to act in ways that "demean others" and telling women not to "give themselves away lightly". But Deputy Prime Minister Julia Gillard said his remarks confirm women's "worst fears" about the Opposition Leader.

Mr Abbott spoke to 3AW ahead of the publication of an interview with The Australian Women's Weekly and said politicians today were asked questions they would not have been a generation ago and people then "tut-tutted about the answers."

Asked if women should keep themselves for marriage, Mr Abbott conceded his own advice to his daughters was clear. "They shouldn't give themselves away lightly. I was asked what would I say to my daughter," he said.

Ms Gillard responded to his comments on the ABC: "These comments will confirm the worst fears of Australian women about Tony Abbott.".

"Australian women want to make their own choices and they don't want to be lectured to by Mr Abbott."

Mr Abbott had said: "I think all of us should act in ways that value ourselves. I am trying not to be a prescriptive here, I am trying hard not to be preacher. In the end these are all very personal things. But if someone asks my advice I would say don't do anything that you will live to regret if you can possibly help it. Try and behave in ways which a self respecting person would act."

"When I start to get on my high horse and say don't do this or don't do that they said, `Well, Dad you did all of those things', and of course they are right, I did."

Asked if his advice was the same to young men, he said it was "much the same". 

FULL STORY

Tony Abbott's daughters knock him off sex 'high horse' (The Australian)

Abbott lecturing women about virginity: Gillard (ABC)

 

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Recent Comments

  1. How dare Tony Abbott suggest to the world at large that we would be best not to do things we will later regret, and that we shouldn't act in a way that demeans other people. No wonder Ms Gillard is upset!

  2. Headline should read 'Gillard Confirms Everybody's Worst Fears'. Clearly she is favour of free and indiscriminate sex.

  3. Michael Blair: You give a perfect example of the straw man argument. Julia Gillard did not endorse free and indiscriminate sex; she said Tony Abbott should not be lecturing Australian women and girls about their choices. Which of course, was her own straw man argument: Mr Abbott was not telling Australian women what to do, but was talking about his advice to his own three daughters. Which is the duty and the role of a father, surely.

  4. Does Julia Gillard represent Australian women or just those who support contraception, abortion, de facto relationships, divorce, euthanasia, lesbianism, etc.? Surely there are plenty of women who are sick of being lectured to by advocates of the 'culture of death' agenda. Hooray to Tony Abbott and all others who wish to resist the growing politically correct dictatorship.

  5. I agree with Mr. Abbott comments 'don't do anything that you will live to regret if you can possibly help it. Try and behave in ways which a self respecting person would act.' In my opinion, some women/girls have no respect for themselves, the media using them as advertising materials, the rich men using them to entertain themselves. Human dignity is interpreted in different way for men and women which indirectly affecting the family unit and future generation for this country and many others.

  6. He was asked what he would say to his own daughters, and he answered truthfully. Heaven forbid that he suggest young people should practise moral and ethical behaviour.
    It is typical of this Government to turn around his comments in to some sort of scaremongering propaganda.

  7. Please, Julia! Don't preach to others. There are young women out there in the community who value the gift of virginity. Take the spin away from everything that is related to every thing that Tony Abbott beleives in or says, just see that where he is coming form is totally different to your lifestyle and beliefs.

  8. Who would have thought that telling women not to 'give themselves away lightly' is womens' 'worst fear'?

  9. It is certainly a shame when a minister of the Crown criticises someone who advocates saving sex until marriage. I am disappointed however that Tony Abbott seems to be sitting on the fence with regard to artificial contraception.

  10. It's obvious Mr Abbott hasn't been blessed with sons (that we know of anyway.) The rule dosn't appear to apply to the male species at any age. Know wonder there are so many Catholic children across the board without fathers.
    Give Eve a break!

  11. Tony Abbott was taken totally our of constext. He was reffering to his 3 daughters and expressing a common hope and advice from any father to his daughter/s.
    When Ms Gillard was questioned on Channel 9, she would not have been aware of the context in which he made this statement

  12. How can a woman who currently lives in a de facto relationship, is not married and has never had children, be even remotely qualified to speak on behalf of 'Australian women'? She certainly doesn't speak in the name of my mother, wife and daughters.

  13. I am a married woman with children. It is Julia Gillard who is my worst fear, not Tony Abbott trying to pass on the wisdom of mistakes he himself has made.
    Keep it up Tony! There are lots of young girls and boys who would benefit from your advice.

  14. She sure has some gall. I echo the comments made by Michael Bernard - it is truly counter-cultural now to espouse a belief that sex is not just some other recreational activity and has a special place in the fabric of society, the family - the domestic church.
    Libertine labor - every excess is permitted and implicitly encouraged but woe betide anyone who would have the temerity to suggest that age old virtue has a place.

  15. My forbears were friends and close political collaborators of Ben Chifley and would have agreed completely with Tony Abbott on this at least, whatever the New Class members who dominate the modern ALP might say. My grandmother - who had known him since 1907 - said he would be turning over in his grave at the Whitlam government and its trendoid social engineeering that has blighted Australia and the ALP ever since.
    How long before they and their release-your-inner-porn-star 'sex educators' make virginity a notifiable disease?
    If it hadn't been for the extremist arrogance and stupidity of Workchoices, Howard would still be in office. And for Workchoices, our cafeteria Catholic friends Abbott and Andrews do have something to answer for.

  16. And, of course, you speak for your female relations, Michael.

  17. That was Mr Abbott's opinion and he is entitled to hold and express it, particularly when questioned. He showed courage in taking such a point of view. I agree with him on that. However, I must express great disappointment with many of the facets of his behaviour when in government - such as support for Workchoices, for Children Overboard, attitude to refugees etc etc

  18. My mum always said: You should have something to give, Someone to love love. And something to hope for.
    Then she said: Your gift to your husband or wife is your 1st kiss. And that is true love.
    I tell you, she was heaven sent.

  19. JR: I am blessed to have female relations faithful to God and Church. They can speak for themselves. It's not my fault they, like me, reject the culture of death agenda.

  20. Why does any issue that relates to female sexuality and reproduction always garner so many comments?

  21. They like to speak on behalf of women, act on behalf of women, for women, to women, in that way, 'they' could dictate the terms anyway 'they' wish, the rules always changes, but it always works for 'them'. It is like man defining what rape is for women for many years. I pray that many of these men will soon go back to God, and find in God - her motherly embrace.

  22. I thought Tony Abbott was speaking about advice he would give his daughters.
    Are those upset with Mr Abbott's comments in favour of their children finding out that most men at a young age just want sex?

  23. Are we expecting an Opposition Leader to reveal such personal matters publicly? Is this not asking for trouble? I doubt that his daughters will appreciate such exposure to ridicule.

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