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Absentee dads a problem, says Pope

Published: May 24, 2012

Dads who are absent from their family make it more difficult for their children to understand God as a loving father, said Pope Benedict XVI, the Catholic News Agency reports.

“Perhaps modern man does not perceive the beauty, grandeur and profound consolation contained in the word ‘father’ with which we can turn to God in prayer, because the father figure is often not sufficiently present in today’s world, and is often not a sufficiently positive presence in everyday life,” the Pope said in his weekly general audience address.

He underscored that the “the problem of a father not present in the life of the child is a big problem of our time” because it can become difficult for those children “to understand in its depth what it means to us that God is Father.”

In the US, over one-third of all children live apart from their biological father.

The Pope delivered his remarks to over 20,000 pilgrims in St. Peter’s Square. His reflections, which today focused on two passages from St. Paul on the Holy Spirit enabling people to call upon God with the intimate term ‘Abba,’ continued his series on the role of prayer in the story of salvation.

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  1. What of the children who are orphaned? In my case and my brothers, our father died in our infancy/preschool years. Mother remained a widow for 20 years. I always refer to God as Father, yet I have no experience of an 'earthly' father.
    I consider myself fortunate that I have been able to nurture my faith as best I can.

  2. When will they ever learn? God is not a bloke; God is not a boy's name!

  3. While I do sympathise with the Pope's concern for children feeling the loss of an absent parent, the emphasis on biological parenthood is at odds with the Gospel story.
    The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph was effectively the story of a stepfather - a benign foster parent who was venerated in Christian tradition but whose role is denigrated by those who believe in the primacy of genetics in the definition of family.
    The profundity of the prayer 'Our Father who art in Heaven' consists precisely in this notion of the absent father, of trust in someone who, while remote, still cares about the welfare of his child.
    That is why a feminist notion of God as Mother misses the point - it is precisely this notion of masculine absence which charges the notion of God with mystery.
    St Joseph's role as protector of his family and custodian of his stepson does not sit nicely with a bourgeois notion of a genetically based family where the child is just one more commodity, another means of self-realisation.
    In teaching us the Lord's Prayer, Jesus is asking us to embrace that image of the absent parent, challenging us to confront immanence, to make that leap of faith.

  4. 'When will they ever learn? God is not a bloke!'
    Well my reply is: for me, calling God 'Father' seems to work.
    Whatever works for you as long as you can stablish some sort of relationship, as long as you can pray freely without predjudice... mother, father, higher power, whatever.
    God might very well be a bloke. Have you seen God?

  5. This is not about the gender of God, but the role of Father.
    It's not about step-parenting either. It's about the utter devastation which results when a yearning for the love of a father is left unanswered, especially when this is peceived as rejection.
    In this respect, I would think it is different to being left orphan.
    The Pope is right - step into a high school classroom and the students tell what the role of a father is and watch the reaction: a deafening silence and blank faces.
    I was shocked; most really have no idea. So how can Trinity connect to someone to whom the word Father has no meaning?
    In our society, everything has become blurred and confused, even base understandings like fatherhood, which most of us will have taken for granted. And there are plenty studies painting a grim picture of what comes as a result.
    It's the absenteeism which is the issue.
    That's why psychologists will constantly speak of the need for children to have good male role models present in their lives.

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