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CathBlog - Most Catholics choose the Cafeteria

Published: November 13, 2012

BY GARRY EVERETT

Some years ago someone coined the phrase “Cafeteria Catholics”. The term described an approach to being Catholic that is characterised by picking and choosing from among the teachings and practices of the Catholic Church. By implication, Cafeteria Catholics were not “full” Catholics, nor really genuine Catholics, but rather some reduced form of those who claimed to follow Christ in the name of the Church.

In recent years, we have read of some members of the hierarchy who disagree with church views about matters such as the argument for an all male priesthood, or the primacy of conscience in moral decision making.

We know of priests who disown Pope Benedict’s call for co-responsibility (of clergy and laity) “for the life and actions of the Church”. We have been alerted that some members of some Religious Orders, do not follow the Church’s teachings when counselling women facing certain life and death choices. 

Surveys show the extent to which women in some western countries almost totally reject the Church’s teachings on the use of artificial contraception. These few examples indicate that members of all classes of Church membership can find a home in the term Cafeteria Catholics.

When the term was first coined, I suspect it was used in a slightly judgemental, even derogatory way. However, both terms “Cafeteria” and “catholic” deserves closer attention before we can fully appreciate the significance of their meaning when joined as a single term.

Firstly, “Cafeteria.” When one imagines a cafeteria, we can picture a food space place where one is involved with multiple choices. There will be choices about food, beverages, where to be seated (and why), to sit alone or with others (with whom and why). These choices can be made consciously, from habit, or even on impulse. 

Cafeterias are about choices, the exercise of a free will. Of course, choices are constrained, for example, to resources available, time at one’s disposal, the purposes for being in the cafeteria. The weighing of such considerations, and the choices made, hardly deserve our criticism or negative judgement. We would normally regard such choices as mature acts of a thinking individual.

Secondly, “Catholic”. Broadly speaking, the term means a person with an individually unique relationship with Jesus Christ, formed by a particular tradition rooted in Scripture, official teachings of the Church, and reflections on lived experiences.

We might add that the term “Catholic” implies un-changing adherence to a body of truths and behaviours, developed and handed on over centuries. Such adherence furthermore, precludes choosing from among the truths and behaviours, and requires that a Catholic accept the “full deal”, lock, stock and barrel.

In the data revealed in well designed and conducted surveys (e.g the Gallup Poll in the USA and the NCLS in Australia), we find many Catholics responding with widely diverse views on even the most important of dogmas. In a particular Gallop Pull, the following question appeared: “Can you still be a catholic and:

  • Not take action for social justice?
  • not contribute financially to the support of the Church? 
  • Practise artificial birth control?
  • Not accept the doctrine of the Assumption.”

 My recollection is that the majority replied “Yes” to the each of the above items. In a similar way, a significant minority of respondents to the Australian National Church Life Survey, in one particular year, did not accept the teaching of the Real Presence.

How do we explain this seeming contradiction of being able to pick and choose among doctrines, teachings, and practices, and yet still call oneself “Catholic”? Alternatively, we might ask if there is any Catholic who is really “lock, stock and barrel” on everything Catholic?

These are important questions. When the Australian Government Census revealed that Catholics were the largest religious group in Australia, we would have to admit that the Census was not counting “lock, stock and barrel” type Catholics. Rather, the count measured those whom we might call “Cafeteria Catholics”, or nominal Catholics. 

There is a world of difference in the two terms. As Catholics we were quick to claim the title of “largest religious group”, but we are also slow to acknowledge publicly that of that largest group, only about 12% attend Mass regularly, and of those who do (and who participated in the National Church Life Survey), there are widely divergent views on many key matters to do with religion.

Perhaps the term “Cafeteria Catholics” should not be so readily regarded as a pejorative term, a term of derision, a descriptor of lesser worth. Perhaps we should seek more closely to understand why so many Catholics are making choices among key aspects of beliefs and practices. With such understanding we may be in a more advantageous place to begin a dialogue about growth and development, rather than of condemnation and control.

Is the term “Cafeteria Catholics” an oxymoron (self-contradiction), or a call to enter the real world of struggle and hope?


Garry EverettGarry Everett is deputy chair of Mercy Partners in Queensland and a former Deputy Director of the Queensland Catholic Education Commission and previous chair of the Brisbane Archdiocesan Catholic Commission for Justice and Peace.

 

 

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Recent Comments

  1. Garry: The term “Catholic” has always covered a multitude of sins (and sinners). Those using term “cafeteria catholic” maintain only those who intellectually assent to official papal or catechism teaching can call themselves Catholics. As if being ‘catholic’ consisted solely of an intellectual act or an act of will at a particular time! By this criterion, logically, an adult who, before they have to think about the problem of contraception, never articulates a view about it, is a ‘catholic’ but the moment they decide, finding themselves married or about to be married or even not-married(!), to disagree with the Humanae Vitae teaching, they’re suddenly not a catholic, etc. Likewise if they dismiss the idea of infallibility or “immaculate conception”. The dividing line thus hinges on an instant of disagreement on any one of the myriad teachings ever articulated by the church. It would be a challenge, perhaps, for everyone the church claims as officially a catholic - by reason of their baptism - to know with precise and nuanced theological accuracy every single teaching, so we’re left with the problem that either the presumption that they’re catholic rests on their silence, their never having turned their attention to every teaching, in other words, a very non-intellectual exercise, or else, not having done so, they can never be regarded as Catholics until they publically articulate their considered assent to them. Clearly it’s time to reduce the ‘billion’ membership figure to something more like 144,000 worldwide. My goodness, where will it stop?

  2. The sacrament of Confession is a good example of how Catholics make up their own minds.
    The Third Rite was acceptable and well-attended.
    Then Rome, at the behest of a minority, banned it.
    Result, very few now go to any form of the sacrament.
    The seal of confession is almost meaningless because the people of God have abandoned the sacrament.
    It is one of the cafetaria foods they have shunned and, when done in such numbers, who is to say the Holy Spirit is not working through them?
    The Cardinal Archbishop of Sydney, within the last twenty four hours, has done more harm to the Church's cause than he will ever know.

  3. After my earlier comment, I find that Bishop Geoffrey Robinson touched on the very same point in a very comprehensive article to do with the specific problem of abuse in the Church at http://www.abc.net.au/religion/articles/2012/11/13/3632146.htm.

  4. SMK: Why 144,000? This the figure to be saved as believed by the Jehova's witnesses!
    I also notice that you have omitted a very important part of Catholicism - the individual conscience (as per Vatican II).
    When I consider yesterday's display of bravado by a member of the Hierarchy on the paedophilia issue, I start to wonder whether Roman Catholicism has much to do with the teachings of Jesus, our Lord and God!

  5. I am not sure what this piece is trying to do.
    Find some justification for what must ultimately be a deception to say one is Catholic but dissent from key teachings?
    That seems like a recipe for internal and external grief.
    Black cannot simultaneously be white.

  6. The Catholic Church searches for the truth and what you find these days is perhaps Catholics are aware of the main teachings of the catholic faith but do not know or understand the reasons why the church has come to its position.
    If Catholics would listen to the reasons for the teachings, I think you would find more would agree with the teachings. The teachings have al ot of beauty and truth to them when one can understand and reflect on the entirety of the teaching.
    An analogy I’ve noticed in the last 24 hours is that people have not heard the full message from the Cardinal yesterday and people coming to early conclusions about Cardinal Pell’s comments without hearing and understanding its entire message, but rather drawing conclusions based on bits and pieces from unbalanced media.
    It's the same situation with the church’s teachings - one should try to know the full teaching and the reason for it before passing judgement... many will be surprised and encouraged by these teachings.
    I pray for the bishops, priests, nuns and brothers and lay catechesis teachers that they can get these messages to be understood. All of these good faithful Catholics particularly need our prayers and support at this time.

  7. John: With due respect, you haven't addressed the question of what makes a catholic a catholic. Are you saying that all those (many) who do not understand the church's teaching are still Catholics, or not?
    If the latter, how can you tell individually whether any particular person rejects a teaching because they do understand it or because they don't? Conversely, how do you tell if someone understands what they assent to or if they are simply following out of unquestioning habit? Is ‘faithfulness’ more found in someone following a rule simply because it is there or because they understand it and it makes sense? This is a real issue: CS Lewis said that once you think you know something, you cease to say you ‘believe’ it.
    So maybe faith is only a virtue available to people who don't understand anything but simply act. If so, it looks like faith is closed off forever from the day you start to use your mind, and that might include all the people who think they understand things one way or the other. To clarify my own position: I think an attempt to categorise vast numbers of people who were baptised in the Catholic church as ‘not’ catholic leads to logic and semantic tangles and threatens to engulf everyone sooner or later.
    Best to avoid this sort of polemic completely and simply argue over ideas and propositions themselves.

  8. I feel there is a time in being Catholic to be a Cafeteria Catholic rather than a 'belong to a parish'. I've experienced it as I searched for what I needed to continue to be Catholic during a complex and difficult period of my life.
    In fact, in modern society where social mobility is frequent belonging to a parish can be a problem.
    Having experienced at least 11 parishes I find myself Catholic, but a member of my present parish, and ecumenical within Catholicism as well as in Christian Unity and Interfaith religious dialogue.
    It's among totally unchurched people that the challenge to relate to say 80% secularism, relativism and 10% understanding of any church is difficult.
    Often such people consider them of some faith and that's even harder.
    I'm thankful that I seem to have an instinctive search for Truth still residing within my soul and mind.

  9. I think what PeterM was talking about was 'informed conscience' not 'individual conscience' that Benedict XVI states is too often relativism.
    The Catholic Church, Scripture and Tradition, is huge.
    I've encountered 60 year olds who've practised their faith in terms of Sacraments, yet have not learned a thing since they were at school.
    On the other hand we have burgeoning of lay theologians and other church specialists who all have theories that might or might not be helpful to the whole Church.

  10. I agree with John regarding the faithful not knowing the background to the various teachings of the Church.
    For many faithful Catholics attending Mass seemed to be the only obligation in the practice of their faith.
    Yes, the values behind the various teachings are truly beautiful, but many fail to find the time to read or attend Parish nights where education is available.

  11. We've seen in recent days where priests, religious and lay teachers insisting on their right to replace Catholic teaching at will with the then-fashionable 'insights' of Freud, Kinsey, Rogers and pop Jungianism have led us - and it isn't a pretty sight. Could I suggest we also scrap the pooled-ignorance approach to religious education that went with them?

  12. I think the problem lies in the relationship between Mystery and Dogma.
    Instead of asking us to explore the mystery - of Immaculate Conception, Virgin Birth, Trinity, what have you - the Church reduces the mystery to a fixed formula of words.
    Acceptance or non-acceptance of this then functions to exclude, rather than include.
    If we could be included in the mystery via power-filled participation in the Sacraments, rather than an intellectual submission to a form of words, picking and choosing wouldn't be an issue. Otherwise we're worshipping a golden calf, made by the hands of men.

  13. It's very confusing for Catholics living in a modern, secular, democratic nation like Australia, to understand a 2000 years old hierarchical institution like the Roman Catholic Church.
    To make it even more confusing, the Church itself has many factions !
    Recently, I watched on TV as an earnest academic 'celebrity' condemned the Church's teachings on contraception, as contributing to the spread of Aids in South East Asia.
    The total lack of logic appeared to escape the TV audience. (A Roman Catholic devout enough to refuse contraception, would also be devout enough to refuse illicit sex!)
    Recent calls to invade the ancient sanctity of the confessional, accompanied by loud condemnation of Cardinal Pell for defending an intrinsic Catholic practice, are equally absurd.
    If as Det. Chief Inspector Fox demands, Priests were obliged to reveal confessions to the police, who would confess ? Even if they did, such information would be useless as the rules of evidence would render such testimony inadmissible.
    There is no compulsion to be a Roman Catholic, but if you profess to be a Catholic, you can't change the fundamentals, deny the Pontiff's spiritual authority, and reject the Church's teachings or you have just become a Protestant !
    In which case you may be better as a sincere Protestant, than an confused Catholic !
    I feel deep sympathy for beleaguered Cardinal Pell. It's his lonely duty to defend ancient principles against angry, emotional, and irrational hysteria. True Catholics should pray for this courageous Priest.

  14. A total of thirteen comments shows some interest in Garry's topic.
    May I suggest it would be a good idea for CathNews to give a progressive total of comments on a particular article. Most American publications do this.
    If I read an article and find there are more than ten comments on I find there is usually one or two that express better than I could my views on the subject.
    So I'm happy not to comment. If there is one that says exactly what I think I comment to the effect - I agree completely with Anonymous (or whatever).
    In Garry's case he has received a scatter gun volley of replies, most of which I think missed the target Garry had erected.
    He was showing the dangers or difficulties in using analogy, metaphor and simile with regard to spiritual matters.
    But as corporeal beings with limited intelligence how else can we communicate?
    Even Jesus had to use parables to try to get his message of the Kingdom across. And even he had to explain some of them so that his followers would understand.
    Just as some groups wear an apparently derogatory nickname with pride e.g.The Rats of Tobruk, so too catholics who exercise conscientious discernment in the practice of their faith and who find themselves labelled sardonically by their pastors (at all levels) as Cafeteria Catholics, should be comfortable with the decisions they have made. And their detractors instead of labelling them should enter into dialogue with them.

  15. Thank you, David Holden: my thoughts entirely.
    The rules of evidence in their present state would indeed render any information given by a priest concerning information provided to him in a confessional state as being inadmissable.

  16. Well said, Garry!
    When we consider the case, cited here, of 'Humanae Vitae' in which the decision of the Pope was to hand the matter over to a commission of experts, then rescinding that decision the moment it became clear that they were in favour of leaving this to the conscientious decision-making of married couples, we know that Cafeteria Catholics may well be rescuing the reputation of the Church from being an authoritarian (rather than an authoritative) body that is sometimes hamfisted and lacking in consultation in its decision-making.
    Whatever our differences as Catholics, they pale into insignificance when contrasting 'disagreeable honesty' with 'blind obedience'.

  17. smk: I suggest that a distinction among baptised Catholics between those who give a real, living assent to the magisterial teachings and essential practices of the Church and those who don't is inevitable, and has very practical implications for bearing witness to the Catholic faith, the unity of the Church and evangelisation.
    Christ's Gospel and the Church call for judgment, choice and visible commitment, not indefinite speculation and a faith devoid of content, credal and moral.
    As the other John above recognises, a weakening of the intellectual dimension of faith diminishes the Church's apostolic efficacy, especially in times when the Church is opposed in the name of reason.

  18. John 2: I fear you have missed my point which was that attempting to call Catholics only those who assent to every teaching of the church will inevitably miss some marks, be based on considerable speculation, exceed anyone's competence, or result in wiping off from the official record books vast numbers of people otherwise considered catholic.
    No-one disputes that there is a distinction (of sorts) between person A who accepts every teaching of the Church and Person B who accepts few or none. But at present, all those baptised in catholic churches are counted as Catholics for practical purposes and for the purposes of proclaiming how large the Catholic Church is. Proceeding down the path of calling nominal Catholics suspected/known to disagree with a single church teaching non-Catholics not only gets confusing but at the very least demands the honesty to continually proclaim lower or adjusted membership figures. It also probably demands that priests refuse communion to say, a lifelong, undivorced Catholic who leads a moral life, gives to the poor but doesn't accept papal infallibility or the Virgin birth! It gets even sillier when you think that this sort of presumptive exclusion logically extends to infants below the age of reason: since they cannot be said to assent to the church's teaching, they cannot or should not be regarded as Catholics until they do! Better that those who are happy to assent to every church teaching keep their virtuous inclusion to themselves and not usurp God's place.

  19. What a fine name 'Cafeteria Catholics'.
    Gary has hit the nail on the head. Most of us are just that, and more. If we are honest with ourselves, we are a mixture of agnostic, protestant, catholic, atheist, Hindu, Buddhist, Jew etc in varying proportions.
    I know I fit this bill very well and am proud of it.
    I would argue that to find a lock stock and barrel catholic is more pie in the sky than reality.

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